May 06, 2021 5 min read 2 Comments
Work-Life Balance has become, to most of us, the mythical creature of the workplace: everyone knows what it is, but almost no one has experienced it (with any degree of success) firsthand. Employees claiming that they have are met with skepticism and for good reason. After all, how can we believe them when no one else in the office - from the rarely seen CEO down to the bright-eyed intern - has the time for anything but work? That being said, it just can't be real.
But maybe it is, though only aspects of it. A lot of successful people agree that we should give more importance to both aspects of our lives - that is, work life and personal life - but that the balance part makes Work-Life Balance itself an outdated, if not faulty, concept. After all, balance is defined as an equilibrium where two things are equal. So, say eight hours for work and another eight hours for doing what you love and the people that you care about? Life just doesn't work like that.
Here's what we found in our search to discover the elusive solution to the problem: how can I prioritize both my life and my career? Here are some useful bits and pieces from alternatives to Work-Life Balance. We hope that like us, you find something from this list that will work for you!
Coined by work transformation strategist Cali Williams Yost, the Work-Life Fit concept is simple: finding a "fit" that "meets your needs and the needs of your job" with great emphasis on flexibility that goes beyond a flex schedule. Yost's company website, Flex Strategy Group, indicates that it's about learning how to use the technology and workspace options available to build a strategy that creates a fit that is unique for every person. But it's not just any fit: it's one that can be tweaked or "reset" as needed may it be on a day-to-day basis or for the long term as life and career priorities change.
For example, more businesses have come to recognize the benefits of having teams that can remain connected remotely by way of today's technology, regardless of varying locations and time zones. On the employee side, team members spend the time they get as a result of being able to work from home on important things: chores and other responsibilities or quality time with their loved ones. There is, therefore, a fit: though needs and demands can (and will most likely) change on either side of such a working relationship, at the moment, the current set up works all around. Therefore, by work day's end, everyone is happy and satisfied.
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Just as the word "blend" implies, this concept veers away from the unrealistic goal of keeping work and life completely separate by blending them together instead. It's in line with the belief that there's no way to completely shut off from one or the other, especially now that the world is connected 24/7. So instead of insisting on the impossible, "the blend" encourages incorporating career with personal life and vice versa. Like Work-Life Fit, this is also "tweakable" and will look different for every person.
At its most basic, Work-Life Blend can be as simple as being able to check your personal emails during work hours, or answering job-related calls while enjoying some me time. On a whole new level, another example is working during extended vacation: responding to work emails or joining team meetings via video call as needed, and spending the downtime like evenings to get some work done. This allows plenty of people to advance their career while enjoying their lifestyle of choice - and all without having to make sacrifices or suffer a trade off.
Unlike the rest of the items in this list, Work-Life Harmony encourages a shift in your approach to work and life. It starts with figuring out exactly what you want out of both and then making conscious, deliberate choices that shape your career and personal life in ways that bring "harmony." Some serious reflection and planning is involved, giving thought to things like the type of work you want to do, what you want to be doing outside working hours, and how to best maximize your time after such considerations.
To the extremes, Work-Life Harmony is a complete lifestyle change where decisions are made with a purpose: that is, to find a harmony that brings your career and personal life in tune with one another based on your own preferences. It's all about being proactive and taking charge of your life through and through so that you can spend precious time on the things and people that matter to you.
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Just as the name suggests, this concept puts well-being on top of the priority list. If we're going to go with the simplest definition, well-being is "feeling well" and has a rather broad scope - happiness, great mental and physical health, having a sense of purpose, and thriving socially - but therein lies the beauty of Work-Life Well-Being: these aspects are interconnected, and making sure all are functioning can impact the overall quality of life. In the case of your career and personal life, finding meaning that aligns the two can provide you greater satisfaction. If this means finding a job that shares your values and allows professional growth that can help with your life goals, then so be it.
What's great about Work-Life Well-Being is that the resulting positive boost from one aspect can cause a domino effect that impacts the rest. Of course, focusing on just a single aspect won't automatically build up each one, so paying attention to each of them and putting in the necessary work to improve these aspects individually is still vital to keep your overall well-being in check.
Even though Work-Life Balance doesn't quite cut it when it comes to solving our everlasting dilemma that is having enough time and energy for work and play, it sure has provided alternatives that now give us the freedom to choose what matters to us. As different people with different responsibilities and priorities, what we need the most are options - options on how we can lead better lives, ones that help us maximize the time we spend at work, with family and friends, and doing what we love.
Do you believe in the concept of Work-Life Balance? If you do, how has it helped you improve your life in general? If not, what other alternatives have you encountered, or come up with, that helped you find happiness and satisfaction in your career and personal life? Let us know through the comments below! And busy as we all are with everything life throws our way, don’t forget:
Keep on journaling!